Gentleness is the quality of the state of being gentle;mildness of manners or disposition.
In our speaking to others we are to have gentleness, especially when making correction. It is easier for one to receive what you are saying when you have the spirit of gentleness coupled with kindness.
Galatians 5:22 (King James Version) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, gentleness, goodness, and faith.
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